How to use "To be honest" and TBH in English | Real English Expressions
- Mark Connolly

- Apr 1
- 1 min read

Wednesday Wisdom: The Power of "To Be Honest"
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Welcome back to On Your Mark's English!
Today, we are looking at a phrase that helps you navigate social situations like a pro:
"To be honest."
In English-speaking culture, we often try to avoid being too direct or "blunt."
If someone asks you, "Do you like my new haircut?" and you say, "No," it sounds very harsh!
This is where "To be honest" comes in.
It signals to the listener that you are about to share a personal truth.
It softens the blow of a negative opinion or a rejection.
When should you use it?
When declining an invitation: "To be honest, I'd rather stay in tonight."
When giving feedback: "To be honest, I think the first draft was stronger."
When admitting a lack of interest: "I've never really liked football, to be honest."
TBH: The Digital Version
You will see TBH everywhere on Instagram, WhatsApp, and WeChat.
It’s the same meaning, just faster to type!
Practice Time!
Try to use "To be honest" today in a conversation or a text.
It’s a small change that makes a huge difference in how "natural" you sound.
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